IN A MANAGEMENT OR LEADERSHIP ROLE AND FEELING OUT OF CONTROL?
You’re a manager, parent, foreman, owner, or participant on a team; you’re a leader and currently struggling to keep all the balls in the air.
You’ve read books, listened and attended programs, trying to change things, but it’s not working. Losing sleep, clothes aren't fitting the same, can’t think clearly, family’s not happy, and you don’t know what to do next. Everything falls on your shoulders and there doesn’t seem to be good help.
You’re a successful manager, boss or leader who has so much more to offer and a legacy to spread, but have no idea how. The truth is you’re focusing on the wrong things (Don’t worry, I’ve prepared something to help you). What motivates people is different than you learned.
Near burnout and 23 years in health care showed me the missing piece.
You learned to focus on the wrong things, it’s not the safety and security of the work, the harsh discipline and routine of daily habits, or the normal that you are striving for. The perfect bottom line and body won’t matter if you can’t enjoy it.
The secret to leading yourself and a great team with ease is understanding your operating system because people are not cookie cutter (and neither are you). Human behavior cannot be engineered. Trying to control and manage human behavior is like trying to control a bunch of overtired toddlers; it’ll make you lose your mind quickly.
Now, I can’t go into all the details, but I invite you to think about something……
What was happening in life between ages of 0-8 y/o?
What was the world like?
Who was around?
How were things done?
The answers to these questions are part of the foundation of your operating system; the way you interpret and react to things. You see, between the ages of 0 and 8 y/o, the brain is in a download state; what you observed became a setpoint of normal. You then go out into the world, learning new ways of interpreting and doing things. As you try to do things different, you keep falling back into your old habits and becoming more like those that raised you despite the declaration to change. Those around you can predict your moves better than you can.
If you don’t become aware, the nervous system will hijack you into the chaos around you, and you’ll continue to spend your day putting out fires, spinning the wheels and wasting energy.
I do understand that if you’ve read this far, you are willing and able to change, you just need the right awareness and tools. You’ve done a lot already and are so close to living the life you desire!
So, if you’re ready to get started, click the link.
https://leadingwithvitality.com/upgrade-your-operating-system
You’ve got nothing to lose and everyone in your life stands to benefit.
With Vitality,
Amanda
PS: An immediate upgrade to your operating system is one click away.
